{"id":493,"date":"2016-02-04T22:40:16","date_gmt":"2016-02-05T04:40:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/masterkey.betterdayskc.com\/?p=493"},"modified":"2016-02-04T22:40:16","modified_gmt":"2016-02-05T04:40:16","slug":"week-18-finding-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/?p=493","title":{"rendered":"Week 18 &#8211; Finding Our Happy Place"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-494 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2016\/02\/happy-place-300x259.jpg\" alt=\"happy-place\" width=\"300\" height=\"259\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Chicken or the egg, well Shawn Achor has helped answer the question when it comes to happiness or success &#8212; If we keep waiting for the achievements or our ideal of success to come along before being happy, we won&#8217;t get to our happy place.\u00a0 But once we put our happiness first &#8212; find it and live it, THEN the successes we want begin to fall into place.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But I don&#8217;t have any idea how to become happy first.\u00a0 I need A, B and C to happen to me before I can dream of being happy.&#8221;\u00a0 Years and years of conditioning have taught most of us this.<\/p>\n<p>Go back into the future just a few hundred years, there was some magic put down on paper that tied happiness and liberty together, and in this I found even more encouragement to focus on putting happiness first.\u00a0 &#8220;We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This Declaration of Independence was worth fighting for, dying for, worth creating an entire new form of government to secure &#8230; yeah, it&#8217;s THAT important.<\/p>\n<p>So how do we make happiness happen?\u00a0 Shawn&#8217;s researched a list of 5 habits to build.\u00a0 Along with my classmates, I&#8217;ve been digging into these &#8230; and golly, gee whiz, I am becoming more and more HAPPY.\u00a0 And so are THEY!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How can you join the Happiness Team?\u00a0 Here&#8217;s Shawn&#8217;s recommendations:<\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0 Write down 3 things daily for which you are grateful.\u00a0 We&#8217;re using index cards and flipping through the pile every day.<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0 Journal about a positive moment that occurred within your last 24 hours.<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00a0 Exercise &#8211; release your endorphins daily.<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00a0 Meditate &#8211; spend quiet time with yourself, shutting out the world, meeting your marvelous, future, higher self.<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0 Commit random or conscious acts of kindness.\u00a0 Send thanks and praise to others for being in your support circle.<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy Shawn&#8217;s TEDx overview &#8230; then enjoy your BLISS!<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Shawn Achor: The happy secret to better work\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.ted.com\/talks\/shawn_achor_the_happy_secret_to_better_work\" width=\"800\" height=\"451\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Thank you so much for being part of my happiness support group.\u00a0 I sincerely appreciate you checking out my blog!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chicken or the egg, well Shawn Achor has helped answer the question when it comes to happiness or success &#8212; If we keep waiting for the achievements or our ideal of success to come along before being happy, we won&#8217;t get to our happy place.\u00a0 But once we put our happiness first &#8212; find it &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=493"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.journeyofaday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}